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![]() Posts: 1585 Joined: June 27, 2016 ![]() |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQQGLduPCCA www.settingboundaries.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bi7IkucDXyE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N19OJbemZDw it helps me to keep watching you tube to reinforce this in my mind This post has been edited by NyToFlorida on September 21, 2019, 7:47 PM |
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Thank you NTF very helpful |
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One big thing to watch out for they will try to disguise favor request as a need or emergency. Scrutinize and think about all request no matter how small or insignificant. If they ask for a ride to store but bar they go to is near there I'd say no. That being said it is a fine line between enabling and help which should be for all sober and daily routine task we all go through. BUT the alkie/addict must learn or should do as much as they can for themselves because spare time and money will probably wind up in a bar's cash register. |
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