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Posted: November 20, 2013, 1:59 PM
Please help....
I was in a 15 year relationship/marriage with my now ex-husband which I divorced two years ago to be with Outlaw, I have two children with my ex-husband ages 2 and 6. I have known outlaw for most of my life and just knew he was wild and very handsome and he also had a criminal record (nothing serious just minor stuff). It wasn't long after I got involved with him that I learned he had a crack addiction but he wanted to change and have a better life. He then failed a drug test for probation and got sent off for 9 months, I waited and he came back in October of last year. He was good, no drugs just drinking from time to time, we got married in April of this year and I rented my house out and moved in with him on his family land. The drinking became heavier but he worked hard and gave me additional money to my own for groceries bills etc. it then lead to a few times of me being at work and him not answering his phone for hours and then he would leave at random times and stay gone with no communication, I knew what he was doing and after it was done he would admit it but always I'm not doing it again. We ended up going to the beach with his family and he hit me in my thigh about 6 times. He had never been violent and I wondered if it was because he was there and couldn't get to any drugs. I left and didn't communicate with him for about a month and he got arrested for supposedly robbing a man. We started communicating again and trying to incorporate God into our relationship and he says I am the only thing and God that could ever help him. I am struggling with knowing if I am doing the right thing, he is still in jail and probably will be for about a year. I love him like I have never loved anyone and we want the same things in life and to grow old together. I have never done drugs so I know I can make it but with some of you being experienced in recovery for addicts to crack, is there a chance for him to really change or not likely? 😪 | ||
Posted: November 21, 2013, 3:27 PM
Please see my previous post....or, just run now.
Please be well, Larry -------------------- All gods send their drunks to AA My story.. https://www.addictionrecoveryguide.o...ST&f=16&t=63644 | ||
Posted: January 11, 2014, 2:52 AM
When crack hit my neighborhood in the 80's, I decided that I was never gonna be a cocaine addict. I seen what crack did to people I grew up around in North Philly. It was a ugly site and it destroyed families and communities as a whole. So why after all these years and finally finding the love of life, and the father of my 3yr old son and a stepfather to my 6yr old son, and he has a 8yr old daughter (who mother is believed to be a crackhead), am I with a crackhead? I feel like I'm on crack and I'm not! I know it's a sickness that' s hard to beat, so I know I will have to eventually walk away for the sake of me and my children! I will forever love him but love shouln't be like this!
Please pray for me and my family! | ||
Posted: March 29, 2014, 9:45 PM
RUN DUDE SHE WILL RUIN UR LIFE NOT TO MENTION STD IF U R THAT STUPID STAY WITH HER TRUST ME U WILL BE SO HAPPY LATER
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Posted: September 9, 2014, 5:55 PM
Your girlfriend doesn't exist anymore. The person that you knew long ago, . doesn't exist anymore the honest truth is that her brain has been tampered with by the use of this drug. I'm sorry.
I can't tell you what to do, whether to leave her or stay. But I can tell you this, when it comes to crack addiction, you are no longer dealing with a rational human being. And no one will blame you for leaving | ||
Posted: March 14, 2016, 4:49 AM
Did u get things sorted? What did u choose to do I been with my boyfriend for 7 years when I first found out he was doing crack and heroin I left him for a year. We got back together he told me he was clean and things started to look really up he got into work and we spent loads of time planning our future I'm 7 months pregnant and I'm convinced he is back on the gear I thought having things to look forward too would only make things better I don't wanna drag a nee born bby into this chaous and I refuse to allow him to hurt him/her emotionally like he has me. Can I really make a discussion before I've sseen what his like when babies here? I also worry how I'm going to cope finacally he gives me money weekly but his moneys gone the next day I found txt's off drug dealers too.. What shall I do I wish I had a guardian angel 😇
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Posted: August 21, 2016, 7:04 PM
I don't mean to be rude huni but are u real or a robot as they call it?
Laura x | ||
Posted: August 21, 2016, 7:19 PM
What to do
I'm under I new to this help read my thing I wrote huni I'd love to have a chat maybe give u a bit of advice I KNOW HOW YOU FEELING!! All my best to u and baby… Laura xx |
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