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Posted: August 17, 2015, 9:24 AM
Just left my bf in Friday because of crack/porn addiction. I am sooooo heartbroken! Did I do the right thing? I am still in love with him but I couldn't handle it anymore!!! My heart is so broken. He is sick and chooses not to see it. I still love him and want us to work out. He just dosnt think he has a problem. Did I do the right thing??? He is a functioning crackhead. Goes to work every day construction , when payday comes he's broke in 2 days. I was suffering so much so I left. I just couldn't handle it anymore. I felt alone all the time. Any advise? I am crying all the time and my heart hurts so bad. I am still in love with him. I know he loves me and this is hurting him too, me leaving but his using was escalating and I guess his true love is the crack.
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Posted: August 17, 2015, 9:28 AM
I truly truly love him and feel guilty for leaving but I couldn't handle it anymore, I am so upset, I truly love him, I just cry.
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Posted: August 17, 2015, 2:31 PM
I believe you made the right choice.
He needs to make a personal choice lto seek help. You cannot take the choice for him nor can anyone else. I believe you leaving him might make him realize what he is losing and contribute to him asking for help. Staying with an addict can be very painful. Not worth it. Tell him to seek help. Preferably AA/ NA | ||
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Posted: August 17, 2015, 6:16 PM
Thankyou so much for the reply I am jus so heartbroken, this man is a professional pianist , a red seal chef, knows 5 languages and is so talented and absolutely gorgeous, I'm am just needing to know I did the right thing, I feel like everything had changed because of the crack, I'm just soooo hurt, tired of being broke all the time, tired of the sleeping all wknd, tired of competing with it. I feel like I lost.
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Posted: August 17, 2015, 6:20 PM
My heart is broken watching it, my heart is broken if I end this, I lose either way, he and only he has the power to change it, making the right choice is up to him, and it isn't allways easy , but the rewards are worth it.
It's a human life and life is worth living, not living dead, That's what crack addiction does. It robs people of LIFE. | ||
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Posted: August 17, 2015, 8:32 PM
I am going through the same thing with my ex-girlfriend. She is addicted to Pills. We were dating for 10 years. We have been split up for 9 months and it hasn't got any easier.
Everyday I wake up and think about her. Her Parents and I sent her off to rehab a couple years ago and it didn't do anything but give her more connections to get pills. I am pretty sure I have lost her and now I feel broken. I have no confidence and my self-esteem is gone. I have tried helping her but all she says is "I am lost. I have lost everything." I don't know what to do. Some days I wish I had Amnesia just to forget everything. Everyone keeps telling me that it will get better and I am making the right choices, but right now it is very hard to see. I hope things get better for you. | ||
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Posted: August 17, 2015, 9:16 PM
I feel just like you, my heart feels physically broken, I don't want to get up in the mornings, and now I have nothing, nothing, I have lost myself in this madness. I miss my BFF but something else took him and I don't know who's replaced him.
My heart is sooooo broken. | ||
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