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Posted: September 30, 2007, 3:47 PM
I have been abused for 5 yrs from my husband need to get evidence but never found any, just smells, some smell like pear drops, other one really unpleasant like tramps clothing or unwashed sweaty socks. Also one fairly inoquous a bit medicated but def chemical smell, any suggestions welcome, not now addictive but will be glad of short list worth testing, he uses something to make me sleep deeply and another to knock me out, only for half hr or so. thanks
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Posted: October 1, 2007, 5:29 PM
I know nothing about these drugs and hope that someone else will post with more solid information for you, but I sincerely hope that you will get yourself out of this situation. You do not deserve to treated like this...you are a human being with the right to live as you choose and make decisions...no-one has the right to do this to you...please get out...please seek help. It is fantastic that you have found the courage to post here...you know that this isn't right...keep posting and let us know how you are getting on...and PLEASE seek help...whether through a women's refuge or your doctor...get help!
Sending you strength to do what you must do, Maddy x | ||
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Posted: December 6, 2007, 11:13 PM
Hi vanillaice, you're not alone with your situation, I waited 21years to get help...it's ok to get help btw <smile> as much as you need. I hope you're still around here........I f***ing hate that drug with such a passion...all my rage went into the DRUG and not the MEN who screwed me up !!! I sucked up all my pain into that one drug and exhaled it through smoking pot for years. I'm just saying....for me, anger is a scary place to go....but I really need to go there in a healthy way so I'm reading a book about being scared of anger. lol
Depression took over my soul....for so long......I medicated with alcohol for so long....what a bloody shame....I really hope you're ok. I'm sorry if I'm talking too much :-) However.....today I feel alive now like never before...... Are you still around ? Love and Light, Diana -------------------- "When the mind begins to become still, we then begin to truly see it. When you first try to stabilize and pacify the mind, initially it will become very busy because it’s not accustomed to being still. In fact, it doesn’t even necessarily want to become still, but it is essential to get a hold of the mind to recognize its nature. This practice is extremely important. ... Eventually you will find yourself in a state where your mind is clear and open all the time. It is just like when the clouds are removed from the sky and the sun can clearly be seen, shining all the time. This is coming close to the state of liberation, liberation from all traces of suffering. ... The truth of this practice is universal. It isn’t necessary to call it a religion to practice it. Whether one is a Hindu or a Moslem or a Christian or a Buddhist simply doesn’t matter. Anyone can practice this because this is the nature of the mind, the nature of everyone’s mind. If you can get a handle on your mind, and pacify it in this way, you will definitely experience these results, and you will see them in your daily life situation. There is no need to put this into any kind of category, any kind of "ism." ~Venerable Gyatrul Rinpoche | ||
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Posted: December 7, 2007, 3:09 AM
Vanillaice,
Next time that happens, call the police and an ambulance. Go to the hospital and have them test you. Something is wrong if you are suspecting your husband of poisoning you. Can you get to a batterrd womens shelter? | ||
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Posted: April 17, 2009, 5:44 PM
I was date raped when i went out for the night not knowing i was 6 weeks pregnant, i suffered 7 years of domestic violence with my partner, you have flash backs of what really happend and start to remember.
I walked why are you still there, it took alot for me to leave and walk from my baby boy of 4 years old but it was the only way, he did not beleave i would and i spent 9 months on the streets with a £400 a day habit on H and Crack. You best get out but how can you tell someone coz noone could tell me in those days 2000 i left D.V the best thing i done merca x | ||
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Posted: April 17, 2009, 7:20 PM
Merca, check out the posting dates on older posts...this one is from 2007...long gone.
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Posted: August 30, 2009, 4:23 AM
You never know, she may just come back to this forum some day and find Merca's advice was just what she needed.
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